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10 Reasons Married People Who Cheat Don’t Marry Their Affair Partners

Willard F Harley, a clinical psychologist and marriage and family therapist, writes in Love Busters: Overcoming the Habits That Destroy Romantic Love that during dating and courtship, couples create romance by meeting each other's most important emotional needs.This is why married people who cheat rarely plan to marry their affair partners:
1). The affair partner is viewed as a temporary escape, not a long-term partner
2). Studies show that many married individuals who cheat are satisfied with their marriages
3). Affairs are only used for excitement or validation

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4). A relationship built on cheating lacks the essential foundation of loyalty required for marriage
5). The excitement of the affair is tied to the forbidden nature of the relationship

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People will still look for relevant information by using keywords that will take them to the sites they need6). Many married people who stray use the affair partner as a temporary escape
7). Affairs are built on fantasy, escape and convenience, not real-life partnership
8). It is difficult to build a lasting, trusting marriage from an affair as cheating is set on a foundation of lies and betrayal
9). Affairs are based on idealised fantasy, not reality
10). Affairs are driven by a desire for excitement or unmet needs, not the intention to marry another person.
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